Megan Monique
 
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I know you've heard it before, but it's true - nothing else matters or exists at any given time, other than this moment. This statement can be especially valuable in our relationships. 

It's more common than not, & much easier to move from a space of what was, wasn't or has been than what is NOW in any relationship. 

Much of how we react & respond to our partners can be from a place of what happened days, weeks, moments, months -even YEARS ago instead of what is true for us in this moment. 

Thinking of how to respond differently can be overwhelming & sometimes seem impossible to say the least. Especially when we have been doing it one way our entire lives. 

I want you take a moment to try out this idea. 
From my experience moving from a place of intention creates magic. Where as moving from a place of past creates turbulence. 

Choose an intention for your relationship (romantic, friendships, family, co-workers, anyone & everyone) & allow the magic to show up in your lives. 

Here are a few examples to look at:
  • I am open & willing to see my partner through the energy & love of The Universe instead of my own judgement critisism. 
  • The intention & purpose of our being together is to give, have & be love. To experience it on every level with one another. Inside & out. 
  • My soul-purpose for being committed to our relationship is to inspire others & each other to be the very best version of ourselves. 
You don't have to stay with one intention or have your intention be a full sentence. You can choose a different one each morning when you wake up if that catches your fancy! 

You can also have the your combine intention be something like love, passion or integrity. The only important factor is that the choosen intention lights your internal flame & makes you come alive with excitement. 

The next time you feel the pressure of a relationship weighing down on you, check in with yourself & ask if you are moving from the past or from the current space of intention? 

Allow the weight to lift & the magic to take its place. 
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Kate link
06/16/2011 2:31pm

Recently I've spent a lot of time being upset and freaked out about people who disagree with me politically. I've been trying to let it go, with some luck, but not a lot.

I'm gonna try this -- not sure exactly how to affirm it in words yet, but something like what you have above -- and see if that helps.

Thank you!

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Megan Monique link
06/16/2011 3:37pm

That is wonderful Kate. Also know that there is great value in being HEARD. So long as the people you are sharing your political views are HEARING you - it's not important that they agree with you.

As Dr. Wayne Dyer says, 'You can be right, or you can be happy. You choose.'

Lots of love to you,
Megan

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Steve M link
06/17/2011 11:25am

Always a difficult one Megan but one that I work on. We can be so conditioned by our 'stories' - that heavy bag of past experiences that we often carry around with us. Coming from the moment, exactly as it is, without any preconceptions or our 'story' allows us to respond differently, more genuinely, more appropriately, more lovingly. Thanks for the reminder. Steve

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MeganMonique
06/17/2011 11:32am

You are so welcome, Steve. Thanks for sharing your perspective. XO

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